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2025 Reflections
Happy New Year. 2025 was an amazing year – though it tested my mettle at times. It gave generously, then asked for patience. It offered light, and occasionally checked whether I could carry it. Some days were simple. Some were lessons disguised as weight. What carried me through wasn’t strength on display, but the quieter kind – the kind that sits with you and doesn’t rush the hard parts. I’m grateful for the family and friends who stood beside Natalie and I, steady when the ground shifted, present when answers were thin. This was the year I stopped mistaking resilience for doing everything alone. I wrote from inside the moment…
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Are You OK?
“Are you OK?” asked the nurse, as machines hummed and lights glared. The patient, yellow-tinged, weary, lay silent while the world hurried around her — fluids, paracetamol, antibiotics, needles and scans, the mystery of illness written in her blood. And what of her husband? Inside: fear, exhaustion, despair. Outside: armour of calm, the warrior, the rock at her bedside. Is he OK? She is not ordinary — if such a word belongs to anyone. Her body a puzzle of conditions that weave together into fragility, into fight. Is she OK? Days blur into nights. Corridors become home, moved from ward to ward, sleep fractured by monitors’ beeps, by rubies of…



